Are you finding it difficult to figure out how to attract a guy? Is it any guy, or just one in particular? Do you feel that your dating life would really improve if you just knew the right techniques? Many of us have asked ourselves these questions as we sat alone on a Saturday night.

The rules of attraction can be complicated, but once you sort them out, learning how to attract a guy can actually be pretty simple. Before you go to the next party or online dating spot, give some thought to these three rules of engagement. You’ll learn how to attract a guy before you know it!

Easy does it.

In the early stages of any relationship, it’s always better to take things slowly. Don’t rush in with bells and whistles, trying desperately to capture a guy’s attention. Try a little subtlety. Yes, be flirtatious and strive to catch his eye, but don’t spook him with too much of a hard sell. Let a charming smile, interested body language, and an attractive demeanor do the selling for you. The first rule, if you want to learn how to attract a guy: slow and steady wins the race.

Be interesting.

If you want to catch a guy’s attention, you must show him that you are worth getting to know. Try mentioning recent activities that might be intriguing to him. Share a humorous experience. But also be just a bit mysterious – don’t tell him your whole history the first time you meet. When you leave the room, you want the guy to say, “What a fascinating woman! When can I see her again?” The second rule on how to attract a guy: be the most captivating woman in the room. Psyche yourself up for this, because in order to be interesting, you must feel interesting.

Be interested.

Just as you must seem like an interesting person to the guy you are trying to attract, it is equally important that you seem interested in him – his thoughts, his experiences, his dreams. Let’s face it: we all like to talk about ourselves. Encouraging a guy to do just that gives him a little ego boost and also makes you seem more fascinating in turn. If you’re trying to attract someone you already know, ask him about his favorite subjects and interests. If he is someone you’ve just met, find out what those interests are! So, rule number 3 on how to attract a guy: talk to him-and about him.

If you’ve always struggled with how to attract a guy, success may not come overnight. As with any new skills, you must first learn the skills and then rehearse them. Try role-playing your new dating behavior at home. Think of interesting subjects to try out – just make sure it doesn’t sound rehearsed. By following three of the primary rules of attraction, you will soon begin to see a real difference in your dating connections. And don’t be greedy – soon you can start teaching your friends how to attract a guy as well!

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.