How to Approach Women – Why the Approach is So Important

Jul 27, 2010 Author: admin | Filed under: Attract a Girl

Okay, so you want to get a handle on your dating life. More specifically, you want to become one of those guys that just seems to have a way with females. If this is what you want, then you NEED to know how to approach women. You can’t walk a mile without taking the first step, and you cannot get a conversation started with a woman until you approach her.

HERE’S WHY THE APPROACH IS SO IMPORTANT…

First impressions mean a lot. Some would argue that they mean everything. Whatever your take on this is, you have to admit that a woman IS going to start making some judgments of you as soon as she sees that you are walking her way. So, the approach really lays down the foundation for everything that happens next.

If you approach a woman, and she does not like the “vibe” that she gets from you, then warming her up is going to be tough. However, if the vibe that she gets from you is a good one, then you will have to do a lot less to make a good impression on her.

HOW TO APPROACH A WOMAN THE RIGHT WAY…

To approach a woman the right way, you have to start with the mindset. If the entire time that you are walking on over to her, you are thinking in your head about all of the possible ways she might reject you, then you are going to have a hard time even getting out a few words, much less the right ones.

Next, you have to make sure that your body language is emanating the right vibe.

See, your body language can either make a woman OPEN UP to you, or she might just close off. Let’s say that you come across rigid and cold through your body language. Well, then she is going to get a little intimidate by you. However, if you are a little more warm and friendly through your body language, then she will be more likely to welcome you.

You then have to know how to OPEN A CONVERSATION with her. Some guys will rely on generic pickup lines, and they can work sometimes. Some will use a little humor and this can be very effective. Whatever you do, you have to open her with confidence and not like a guy that is trying too hard to pick her up.